So.......June 4th would have been my 6-year wedding anniversary. What an interesting year.
Nonetheless, no time for a fall apart, instead I need a plan. I have been considering what to do on that day/evening and need advice (and it doesn't matter if you've been through this or not, you can still weigh in).
Options:
- Have a big dinner party at my house for friends and family - not a celebration per se, just a dinner to enjoy a nice evening together.
- Go out for a very small dinner with a few select friends and family.
- Go out of town for the weekend. Seattle (Jake/Jaimi), Cedar (Casey/Cori), Vegas (Allreds), Idaho (Falkenraths), etc, or somewhere totally random alone - like New York because it's my most favorite city in the world.
- Go to the temple. Might be emotional, but possibly a cool experience.
If I don't plan something, I'll likely end up in my office all day/evening, as that seems to be where I spend all spare time these days....it's been super busy.
Thoughts? What to do? I need to something other than work. Even thinking about that day makes me a little sad so I need a game plan - and I need it fast. Help please. Now.
I recommend what I used to do on Valentine's Day when I didn't have a boyfriend at the time. I would find a spa and buy the biggest package to fill my day and LOCK myself away in heaven...pedicures, manicures, body scrubs, body wraps, heat stone massages, scalp treatments, facials, lunches, workouts, saunas, etc. The way I look at it, you deserve to feel good and pamper yourself.
ReplyDeleteI like the idea above as well but I think it depends if you want to be alone or not. If you do want to be alone, why not New York? If you don't want to be alone than either invite friends over or visit friends. If you don't want to deal with being the entertainer, go visit someone else and let them entertain you. I think you need a break from work, especially since June 1st is right around the corner. But WTH do I know??
ReplyDeleteI think a girls trip could be fun! If we went el cheapo I could do it! We could go to Lava Hot Springs, or go see Ali and the three of us could play. I'm game if you want, just let me know ASAP so I can make plans. If alone time is what you're after, then I say combine all the ideas. Head to New York, and while your there hit the Spa for the total work over, and go to the temple! Those are my ideas. :)
ReplyDeleteSo... I would love to have you come and visit me, but we are leaving our little Idaho Falls :( on June 4th and traveling to our new home...Las Vegas. I have to say that going to a spa sounds heavenly about now. We need to plan a GNO (Girl's Night Out) real soon. Love you girl. I will be thinking about you.
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